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A virtual memorial for Arne Collen: celebrate his life with us here

The Saybrook community is saddened by the passing of our dear friend and colleague, Arne Collen.
Saybrook's community, united in scholarship and practice, is spread across the world -- and so Arne's friends and colleagues likewise stretch around the globe, mourning the loss of such a unique man and vital scholar.
Appreciating the difficulties of gathering such a dispersed community together on short notice for a memorial service, his family has asked that a virtual memorial -- a living document testifying to his life, passion, and legacy -- be held online.
We invite you to be part of it: if you have a fond recollection or favorite story about Arne, or just want to say "thank you" or "goodbye," please share it with his community of loved ones in the comments section below.
Arne has been a member of our faculty since 1978 and most recently served as Director of Research. He has deeply touched the lives of so many of our students and colleagues over the years. Willson Williams, co-Chair of the PHS faculty, knew Arne well. “Arne was one of the most gentle and kind people I have ever known. He had a gentle soul. He was thoughtful and caring and thought of others before himself. He had a generous and kind spirit.”
As for his scholarly work, Arne said, “My professional identity is captured in the phrase ‘research methodologist’ and my specialty is research methodologies for human inquiry. Rather rare and unusual; albeit, it is my reality and primary passion that has sustained me over the course of my professional career.”
An accomplished artist, in the past few years Arne passions have centered on the arts – photography, lithograph, print-making, making short films, and creating three-dimensional art from found objects. He delighted in his art projects, and took joy in creating “something from nothing”; his ecological consciousness infused all of his artwork. His home in Santa Fe was filled with massive collages of found paper that inspired the spirit. Evidence of his prolific talent made his home in Santa Fe an artistic haven.
Arne passed away last week, surrounded by his family, including his two children Kristin and John. He delighted in his family and had a special spot in his heart for his little granddaughter Jenna.
Our hearts go out to his loved ones at this terribly sad time.
His son John is working on finishing an arts-based website that Arne had started that will chronicle his life’s journey for the past 40 years. Arne called the website “A reservoir of humanness to share with those who care.” When this site is finished and ready to view, we will share that information with you.
If you wish to send a card or letter of sympathy to his family, please send it directly to Saybrook and we will make sure that it is passed on to them.
Please share your recollections of Arne with us below.





To Arne,
You encouraged me to keep writing poems, so here is one I'd like to think you are saying to us now—
I'M IN EVERYONE
I am the child who yearns to grow,
the peasant with scarce seeds to sow,
the veteran who walks with pain,
the carpenter who carved his cane.
I am the mom who sits at night,
and prays her child will be all right.
I am the dad whose youth is gone,
who takes his son to greet the dawn,
the criminal who seeks God's grace,
the astronaut in outer space,
the traveler trekking in foreign lands,
the pilgrim lost in desert sands,
the miner digging deep for coal,
the chanteuse singing from her soul,
the skier schussing powder snow,
the farmer digging with his hoe,
the dancer vamping on the stage,
the artist painting joy and rage,
those craving peace, those waging war.
I'm all of these and millions more.
Do not stand at my grave and cry.
I am not there, I did not die.
I am everywhere beneath the sun,
I'm in everything and everyone.
Tom Greening
Posted by Tom Greening (not verified) | 03/12/2012 @ 02:53 PMArne was my first cousin. His mother (Bobbie Collen) and my father (Wally Diner) were sister and brother. They, as well as two more sisters (Anne and Perle), all died within a two-week period. Two more sisters (Clara and Trina) died the next year.
My memories of Arne include how I always looked up to him and wished to know him and his three siblings better. We periodically visited them in Walnut Creek from Southern California, and the families met a few times in Los Angeles. but we've seen little of each other since childhood. I remember being thrilled that he once asked me to dance at a family occasion.
There has always been a void in my heart because I so wanted to be closer to my cousins. I learned about his accomplishments and beautiful soul by reading about him online.
He didn't know the adult me; that I've been an editor and a science teacher (biology, chemistry and physical science) and a proud single mother of a wonderful daughter, now 26, who has a BS in biochemistry, molecular biology and legal studies, as well as an MBA, and MS in biotechnology and bioinformatics.
We recently moved to Northern California. I had hoped for a family reunion at some time soon. I had no clue that he was sick. I feel devastated at learning of his passing. Rest in peace, my beloved cousin.
Averi Diner
Posted by Averi Diner (not verified) | 03/12/2012 @ 02:54 PMDear Arne,
I wish I had been with you during your last few weeks. I did send you a number of e-mail messages with my wishes for your well being. I had hoped you would recover and we could have so much more time to discuss our future plans for research courses and your proposed Human Science course on Art, Architecture and the Human Sciences. I was really looking forward to that course.
Thank you for helping me get re-involved with Saybrook after so many years away. We first met when I graduated in Human Science in 1978 and you were hired on the faculty. I wondered why they were hiring an experimental psychologist with a quantitative background. Little did I know that you were likely a Humanistic Hippy in a positivist's clothing. Since I have returned to Saybrook as a faculty member these last several years you helped me enormously in developing my research courses and you supported all of my efforts in taking on more courses and students. Thank you for this.
One of the things I have respected you for the most is your openness to new approaches to qualitative research. You have encouraged the development of a new course in ethnographic research and taken a personal interest in autoethnography, which a number of Saybrook students are now employing for their research. I also respect the design and management of the research sequence which you have directed. Your contributions to Saybrook, our faculty, and our students are immeasurable.
I know that you had many more facets to you than I was able to fully experience. I wish I had been able to see some of your art work, which others have described to me. I am pleased that you have had a very full and rich life and that you achieved that very rare balance between the experimental psychologist I first met and the artist and humanistic psychologist who re-entered my life these last few years. Bless you and your spirit.
Posted by Robert McAndrews (not verified) | 03/12/2012 @ 02:58 PMI learned of Arne's death at the Association of Transpersonal Psychology Conference this weekend where I presented my Saybrook research. I loved reading the various aspects of Saybrook and personal family interactions with and appreciations of him after I returned home in the wee hours this morning.
When I served as a student member on the SIRB, I appreciated Arne's attention to and care for the protection of the participants in the research of Saybrook students.
My research at Saybrook was on the experience of individuals who believe they are mentored by someone who is no longer living. Arne, reading what current and former students have said about your assistance in life, it seems as though there's a potential continuing role for you at the school to which you have already devoted so much of yourself. I'm smiling at the possibility.
Posted by Phyllis L. Clay, Ph.D. (not verified) | 03/12/2012 @ 03:03 PMPhyllis L. Clay, Saybrook Grad.
Arne Collen
Arne Collen was a very good friend of my father, Martin Allwood, who passed away in 1999.
Arne originally was my father’s student, but over the years became a friend. Arne and my father supported each other in many ways. Arne visited Marston Hill in Sweden and Martin visited Arne at Walnut Creek. As part of their cooperation, they had joint publication activities. Arne was writing a biography of my father’s professional career.
Through Arne’s visits in Sweden, I (Jens Allwood) also got to know him. We became friends and had many discussions about philosophy, research methodology and other common interests.
Arne used to appear (not always preannounced) in the summer at Marston Hill in Mullsjö, Sweden, where he would then partly work on his various project, but also cheerfully help us with the gardening and maintenance work, we were engaged in.
Arne became a member of the Marston Hill intercultural center for quality of life and together we planned a workshop on biographical writing.
We were hoping for another visit from Arne this summer. But fate would have it otherwise.
We have lost a good friend and collaborator.
Jens Allwood
Posted by Willson Williams (not verified) | 03/12/2012 @ 03:08 PMElisabeth Ahlsén
Carl-Martin Allwood
My dear Arne,
You were a genius, a kind, deep, sly heart, and a man of profound insight and wisdom... Knowing you made me a better scholar, and more importantly, a better person.
My world is diminished knowing you are no longer a part of it. But my memories of our talks will live on.
Your friends,
Posted by Doug Beckwith (not verified) | 03/12/2012 @ 03:11 PMDoug Beckwith
Do not stand at my grave and weep,
I am not there; I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow,
I am the sun on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning’s hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circling flight.
I am the soft star-shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not there; I did not die.
-- Mary Elizabeth Frye, 1932
Posted by sigrid (not verified) | 03/12/2012 @ 03:12 PM…and so, Arne, you live on in nature. You also live on in our hearts and minds, in the laughter and tears of your loved ones, in the ever-unfolding story of Saybrook, the students you mentored, the gardens you kept, the trees you planted, the art you created and yes, in the grateful smiles of cooks and kitchen staff at a rustic resort somewhere near Moscow, where you offered “non-verbal compliments on the plentiful helpings of food” (Stan Krippner). Always a teacher, always a student, you touched us all and will continue to do. Dear Arne, safe journeys as you travel with the winds and sparkle with the stars.