Posts tagged with the category Self-Actualization
“Today is the tomorrow we worried about yesterday.” – Author Unknown
I came across this diagram some time ago. When I saw it I laughed of course but deep down knew that this was an image portraying a hard truth.
Worry and anxiety can consume so much of our energy. I can’t even imagine the amount of time and energy that I...
I will do it
This past Friday I did something I have never done before, I attended a protest meeting. Now, it was an organizational meeting and we didn’t actually get out on the street, but I stepped outside my comfort zone, and connected with a group of people I didn’t know for a cause from which I have nothing to gain. You see this is...
It might not be you: toxic relationships and authenticity
“Before you diagnose yourself with depression or low self esteem, first make sure that you are not, in fact, just surrounding yourself with a**holes”
I came across this quote the other day. It made me think of the times I would have sessions with a few of my clients during my internship. A few were in what I would...
Give Me Liberty, Or Give Me Death
“Is life so dear or peace so sweet as to be purchased at the price of chains and slavery? Forbid it, Almighty God! I know not what course others may take, but as for me, give me liberty, or give me death!”
Every American school boy or girl learns the famous words of Patrick Henry at some point in their young lives. America is...
Reaching the present moment means coming to terms with death
“The idea of death, the fear of it, haunts the human animal like nothing else; it is a mainspring of human activity - designed largely to avoid the fatality of death, to overcome it by denying in some way that it is the final destiny of man.” – Ernest Becker.
Here is the cold, hard reality – we all die. Each of us are...
James Bugental's lessons for social change agents
Dr. James Bugental presented a paper at the 1965 meeting of the Psychologists Interested in the Advancement of Psychotherapy in Washington, D.C.
The paper “The Humanistic Ethic – The Individual in Psychotherapy as a Societal Change Agent” presented a perspective on the potential of psychotherapy. Bugental felt that potential...
“I have… a terrible need… shall I say the word?… of religion. Then I go out at night and paint the stars.” Vincent van Gogh
It was a moonless night and I laid in the balmy August air on a sandy beach, watching and waiting passively for the stars to show themselves to me. Not unlike waiting for the...
Happiness is over-hyped
We all want to be happy. There is a growing body of research on happiness and the positive effects it can have on personal well-being. The self-help industry is fueled by the personal goal of being happy and the practice of positive psychology encourages the growth of personal happiness.
But beware the happiness hype. Happiness might...
Shakespeare in ... lust?
It’s a headline guaranteed to make any romantic smile: “Love, but not lust, inspires creativity.”
That’s the conclusion of a new study reported in the Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin.
In it, researchers asked 60 university students to imagine either casual sex with someone they were attracted to but...
There is no substitute for solitude. Is it gone for good?
Meister Eckhardt, the 13th century mystic, once said “There is nothing so near God as silence.” But he never had to deal with somebody text messaging in church.
Technology has not only improved our ability to communicate with one another: it’s allowed us to communicate at all times, wherever we are. The result,...
The connection between hope and rehabilitation
“Hope is important because it can make the present moment less difficult to bear. If we believe that tomorrow will be better, we can bear a hardship today." -- Thich Nhat Hanh
Having hope can be the one thing that will help prevent a criminal from ending up back in prison.
It seems simple but it is an idea that has yet to catch...